CUNNILINGUS LOVE- HOW TO GO DOWN ON A WOMAN

Cunnilingus is the act of oral sex done upon a woman’s vagina, and clitoris. Sometimes it’s commonly called eating out, giving face, or a multitude of other terms that you’ve probably heard everywhere from the school yard to the water cooler. If you’ve ever wandered how to get really good at it, we’ve decided to throw a few tips your way. As with any sex act it’s hugely beneficial when your partner is relaxed first. Just jumping right into it may work occasionally for some, but it’s usually a safe bet to start slow and follow your partner’s cues. Remember your not simply following a recipe that’s going to produce the same results every time you’re practicing some techniques that will if done just the right way create something akin to a musical masterpiece ending in a crescendo like orgasm.

For the adventure your about to embark on you’ll need a giving demeanour, lips, tongue, chin, hands, and your fingers too. Some women can be self-conscious about what they can’t easily see, so be sure to compliment her every step of the way. Practicing compliments and communication as to how things are feeling will also go a long way to creating that environment of relaxation. Also pay special attention to your partners body responses, remember your communicating yourself sexually from your mouth through her vagina so you want to be aware at all times of how they’re feeling about what you’re doing.

When you first begin the clit may be too sensitive for direct stimulation, so

focus your attention to places like the outer labia, and inner thighs. Then gently spread apart the outer labia and with a relaxed tongue gently caress the moistened folds of her vagina. As things begin to warm up play with both the firmness of your tongue, and the pressure you apply to different parts of the vagina. You’ll want to tease, and taunt to bring the heat of the moment up. Your partner will also enjoy the feeling of having your tongue penetrate as you grind your freshly shaven chin (assuming your male) into her vagina. Grinding that chin is also a great way to catch your breath for a second while slowly coaxing the clit to come out and play if it hasn’t already.

At some point she may feel comfortable with you placing two well-lubed fingers, or a dildo inside of her. For some extra success curve your fingers in a come hither motion so they are pressing on the nerve endings on the front wall of the vagina. Some women may be into some light anal play too, and will let you know they would like a finger in their rectum. If that’s the case make sure your nails are well trimmed, and fingers very well lubricated and listen to what she tells you do. For health reasons once you put a finger into the rectum never put it back in the vagina.

Generally at this point things are starting to heat up, and you can start paying some more focused attention to the clit by licking gently around it until you notice it expose itself. Now lightly tease it with your flicking tongue, but not too much you don’t want to desensitize things if it’s still too early in the game.

If things are going really well though and your partner is really responding well via bucking, moaning, or squirming by all means keep doing what you’re doing. Those signals mean she’s enjoying it, and an orgasm is near so whatever you’re doing for the love of a higher being don’t stop!

Once she comes once again follow her lead. Some women will simply want to rest and be cuddled, while some may be eager for more play. Whatever you do be sure to listen to your partners wants and needs before your own. You may even find sometimes that none of this progression is happening for you, and that’s okay too. Don’t force the vibe, put pressure on yourself, or your partner, simply relax and try it another time.