JAMES BONDAGE 2012 COSTUME IDEAS

  With our annual James Bondage event people have a tendency to always ask the question, what should I wear?  So in the spirit of helping your creative juices ooze forth, we've compiled a quick list of 50 Fairytale characters to give you a little help.  We'll also be posting some links on our Facebook Page over the next few days to interesting blog posts we see that are steeped in Deviant Fairytale mystery.  If you have any suggestions to add, by all means tack them on to the comment section for your fellow revelers.

1. Alice in Wonderland
2. Peter Pan
3. GoldiLocks
4. The Big Bad Wolf
5. Gretel
6. Hansel
7. Snow White
8. Rumplestiltskin
9. Sleeping Beauty
10.  The Pied Piper
11. Cinderella
12. Jack and the Beanstalk
13. Queen of Hearts (Alice in Wonderland)
14. A flying monkey from the Wizard of Oz
15. Puck (A Midsummer Night’s Dream)
16.  Titania- Queen of the Fairies (A Midsummer Night’s Dream)
17. Pinocchio
18. Any number of evil witches
19. The Nutcracker Prince (The Nutcracker)
20.  The Snow Queen (The Nutcracker)
21. Fezzik (The Princess Pride)
22. The Little Mermaid
23. Prince Charming
24. Vasilisa the Beautiful
25. Ali Baba
26. Unicorn
27. Enkidu (The Epic of Gilgamesh)
28. Ishtar (The Epic of Gilgamesh)
29. The Hare (The Tortoise and the Hare)
30. Belle (Beauty & The Beast)
31. The Beast (Beauty & The Beast)
32. The Elf Maiden
33. The Emperor (The Emperors New Clothes) see dress code
34. Maid Maleen
35. The Knight in Shining Armour
36. The Forest Nymph
37. Aslan the Lion (The Chronicles of Narnia)
38. The Emerald Witch (The Chronicles of Narnia)
39. Gingerbread Man
40. The Sugar Plum Fairy (The Nutcracker)
41. Puss n’ Boots
42. The Sphinx
43. Nick Bottom (A Midsummer Night’s Dream)
44. Elisa (The Wild Swans)
45. The Seven Dwarves (Snow White)
46. The Banshee
47. The Ogre
48. Glinda the Good Witch of the North (Wizard of Oz)
49. The Leperchaun
50. Jezebel

JAMES BONDAGE ~THE DEVIANT FAIRYTALE~

  Well it’s that time of year again.  The time when New Years resolutions are getting old, and the winter cabin fever is starting to reach a squirrelly crescendo.  The time I’m talking about of course is James Bondage time.  In this its 8^th inception Trinity Romance’s James Bondage Fetish Fundraiser is preparing to incinerate the proverbial box that hems in creativity, and inhibition.  With a laser gun of love our crew is ready to drop funky sass bombs on an unwitting populace in a fairytale inspired fetish party aimed to impress.

  Personally this is one of my favourite times of year.  Together with my team we get to hold a party of epic proportions all in the name of a good cause.  Since it’s inception 8 years ago we’ve managed to raise approximately 35k for the Howe Sound Women’s Centre, 10k for public art projects, 10k for local mountain bike trails, and 2k for the Sri Lankan Tsunami relief, all while having an amazing time.   It’s been a thrill to witness over the years how people’s creative juices pour out for this event.  The ensembles people put together, the décor that is installed, and the performances that are brought in are quite simply mind bending.  If you haven’t been before you need to do yourself a favour and come and check this party out.  This year we’ll be transforming three rooms and creating two stages into a Fairytale masterpiece for the senses.  

 

  Occasionally we’re asked what does a fetish party have to do with raising funds for the local Howe Sound Women’s Centre?  My line of thinking on that one has always been that since they are in the business of empowering women, and we’re in the business of sexual empowerment throwing a party that fed into that synergy seemed like a natural fit.  We’re really proud of our local Women’s Centre; they not only support our community but also service the whole Sea-to-Sky Corridor, as well as coastal towns all up and down the British Columbian shore.  The list of services this great resource provides is quite extensive, and could warrant a blog post in and of its self, but in short we’re really glad to have them in our community, and take pride in supporting this amazing asset as frequently and wholeheartedly as possible.

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SHEJACULATION IT HAPPENS, ENJOY IT!

  So you the story goes like this you were having sex, and getting really into it, then you begin to climax and start expelling a significant amount of fluid out of your vagina in either a squirting, or gushing like fashion creating what may be deemed by some, a messy situation.  Initially you feel amazing, but then all of a sudden you look at your partner to see what happened, and a range of emotions run over you.  You’re shocked, worried, embarrassed, and you might even apologize. 

  First what the h-e-double hockey sticks are you apologizing for?  You were having amazing sex, had an orgasm, and some fluid came out of your vagina.  You can sure bet there’s going to be some fluid coming out of his organ when the time comes (if it hasn’t already), so why the need to feel ashamed.  It’s not normal you say.  Well there is definitely a difference between rare and not normal.  Just because it doesn’t happen every time to every woman doesn’t make it weird, it just makes it special.  That’s right special.  If your partner can’t handle a few ml of fluid gushing, or squirting out during some hot sex it may be time to consider moving on to a new partner that can appreciate you for who you are, and what your body does. 

  What’s happening is completely natural, and a result of a little known organ called the Skene’s gland that’s close to the vaginal entrance and is thought to be responsible for squeezing out the liquid.  Oh, and by the way if you think its pee it’s not.  The medical community is not really 100% sure what it is, and there is a lot of conflicting science about where it comes from, but one things for sure urine it is not.  So if you’re a squirter, or are in a situation where you’re having sex knowing full well that your bladder is empty and you feel that “I have to pee” urge, ride it out, and see what happens.  It could be totally amazing, and something that you thoroughly enjoy the experience of.  If you’re not sure how your partner might react try to keep them in the loop, and be sure to keep the towels handy, and above all enjoy!

Enjoy yourself, it's later than you think,

Enjoy yourself, while you're still in the pink.

The years go by as quickly as a wink,

Enjoy yourself, enjoy yourself, it's later than you think.

-The Specials-

TOP 10 ROMANTIC & SEXY NEW YEARS TO DO’S

     With New Years upon us we're all sometimes left wandering what can I do to make it a memorable one?  I've always believed New Years is what you make it, and if you bit a little bit of effort, and creativity the holiday presents a ripe excuse to create a lasting memory, and intention going forward into the New Year.  So without further adieu here is a list of our top 10 romantic and sexy things to do with your partner this New Years Eve. 

1.    Indoor Picnic- Create a fireside romantic scene for you and your lover complete with blanket, candles, chocolate fondue, strawberries, massage oil, toys, and love… lots of love

2.    Champagne Kisses- Best performed in a bathtub, hot tub, or wherever you don’t mind a little champagne spilling.  For this you will each take a mouthful of champagne and start kissing feeling the bubbly overflow out of both of you, as it trickles and bubbles down your intertwined bodies.

3.    Moonlit Hike- Depending on where you are, and what the weather is doing take your partner on a moonlit hike, or snowshoe complete with headlamp complete and a unique present just for them from you. 

4.    Relationship Resolutions- Create a list of the 10 things that you really value about your partner, and different ways you want to manifest love in the coming year, and recite it to them at midnight.

5.    Book of Us- Create a little photo album of fun things you’ve done together over the last year.

6.    Fireworks- If you can get them, and you’re not breaking any bylaws in your area then do so.  Nothing says excitement like a little pyrotechnics show for two.

7.    The 12 positions- Either dream up a sequence in advance, or work together in the moment to maneuver through 12 different positions.  One for every month of the year.

8.    Set the Tone- Create a playlist, or as a close friend labels them GFM’s (Good F*^@’in Mix) of time related songs, with the occasional new years tune thrown in for good measure. 

9.    Scavenger Hunt- Create a scavenger hunt for your partner either around the house, or around the town that ends up with you presenting yourself, or something really romantic at the end, hopefully they'll finish before the clock strikes 12.

10. Breakfast in Bed- After a night of high romance, and sensual love making be sure to have your fridge stocked with all the necessary ingredients for a memorable breakfast in bed.  Don’t forget the mimosas, or Baileys and coffee!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

VAGINAL TIGHTENING CREAMS EXPOSED

Do you think your vagina isn’t quite as tight as it ‘should’ be? Have you ever thought of using a vaginal tightening cream to ‘firm’ things up?  Well we’re going to take a minute to tell you about some of the stuff that’s in those creams, and why not to bother.  There are lots of companies out there that will spends tons of advertising dollars to let you think that too much sex may stretch you out, or how childbirth can irreparably change your vagina forever.  Generally the marketing spin that has spawned products like vaginal tightening creams can be attributed to a lack of knowledge, or misinformation around the topic of vaginas in general.

These fear-based products feed on women’s insecurities around their own sexual self-image.  Often they are similar in thought design to breast enhancing creams, or penis enlargement cures.  These concoctions will at best swindle you out of some of your hard earned money, and at worst cause an allergic reaction or give you an infection.  Here’s a fact, vaginas are muscles meant to expand and contract.  Just like any other muscle in your body the best thing you can do for it’s overall health and wellbeing is to exercise it either through kegels, or sex itself.

In terms of some of the ingredients that go into these creams it could be as basic as Aloe Vera or as dangerous as aluminum.  Some of these creams even contain numbing agents that lower your sensitivity, the concept being that if your vagina isn’t stimulated enough it will not fully engorge to its normal size, nor will it lubricate itself as much.  With less lube comes more friction giving a feeling of tightness around the penis.  What you’re also getting is a mask over any pain your body may be experiencing, and an increased risk of minor tearing and possible infections.  Generally any numbing cream during sex is a bad idea, due to the fact that your pain receptors are there for a reason, and if you can’t feel damage being done in the moment, you’ll surely feel it later.  Some of the worst vaginal tightening creams contain aluminum, which has links to Alzheimer’s.  Use of these can cause inflammation and dryness giving a tighter feel for the penis, but a rather unsexy possibly painful feeling for the vagina.

If you really are suffering from issues like incontinence, or the effects of childbirth our best advice to you is don’t buy into a magic cream that is going to make everything better, because it won’t.  Go and have a visit with your doctor, do a little homework and get to know yourself inside and out.  Not only will you have a few more dollars in your pocket at the end of the day, but your vagina will thank you as well.